Things are very hard for me right now too. I have missed the Church in some ways, and certainly the blessings of a temple marriage. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. At the end of the second date I knew I needed him in my life. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. I do nearly all of the parenting fortunately we only have one child -- we both agree that this lifestyle is too demanding for more and find that my husband's crazy hours and the energy drain of the job make me yearn to connect with other wives that relate. Look for girls in your singles ward. Should I get rebaptized. As you can see Also, the fact that she served a mission is evidence of her dedication to the religion. She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas.



I hate that it's all on his terms. Thoughtful, Meaningful Content Posts are moderated for content according to the following guidelines hit report on violations: Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. You've all been so helpful. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. What can you expect. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple.
If you do, that's okay. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. It is soooo hard. If after all these suggestions you're thinking "в But I really like her. What part of SoCal are you in. Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons.
Well, you know what you're not going to get into before marriage So fuck that relationship. Patience my dear, that's what you're going to have to keep telling yourself. Good luck and my prayers are with you. Propagandists in the media throw around the word patriarchy as if it is synonymous with anything male. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. Dude just to summarize what I think is the majority of the comments. Let's talk about kids. That's all we're really saying.